We all have some areas in our life where we would like to be better than what we are. Even for the person who claims to be so perfect. So what would it be in your case? If you could change one thing in your life in an instant what would it be. Would it be your hair color, your pot belly (sorry) or something different. Something intangible like your nagging ways or your inability to stand by a decision. Let me know. I'm all ears literally lol (i do have will smith and martin lawrence ears but i don't wanna hear any satellite jokes, dumbo jokes or none of that).
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29 comments:
I've always wanted to be taller. At a mere 5'6, I stand and walk as tall as I can to maximize every inch of my height. At least I have great posture as a result! ;)
But to be model tall and statuesque, like 5'10 or so? Yeah, I'd sell a toe for that!
i would change a thing. I'm perfect...lol
hmmmm- sometimes i think about changing my guarded nature. i may speak openly and be as friendly and comfortable with you as you can imagine... but that doesnt represent my emotional tie. it takes months upon months and maybe even years for me to care about someone leaving my life; i just don't anymore. you wanna go?- bye...i don't fight for them, and i know that there will be a time and place where i'll need to...
correction to 1st line
I wouldn't change a thing...I'm perfect...
see what alcohol does to me??...lol
@the diva of fitness... 5'10 is my height so if you were as tall as me i might be intimidated by you lol
i think i could take you though, i know some tai kwon do moves too lol
@desy desy desy... i don't know desy
i kind of think that's the way things should be
you probably shouldn't give up too much of yourself so early because if you do the other person takes you for granted
nobody wants to be taken for granted so you ar doing the right thing
how do you detach yourself from someone so quickly
you must not be concerned with how they see you
i wish i could have that skill sometimes
and yu are such a perfectionist
you don't have to come back
i know sometimes you can't spell lol
lol- why you gotta put my spelling out there like that...lol
I would change the fact that i would like everyone to like me...and can't understand why they don't...and why should i care...but no matter what i say or think, or feel...i do care. I would change that James...if i could.
I would like to change the fact that I can be nice at times...
thinking too much, and let the past go so I can begin to heal.
I wouldn't change the fact that i have a hearing loss. It was hard as hell but it made me a better person. more of a stronger person...
the fact i'm too hard on myself.
blah blah.. too much ish.... one thing.. umm...
If there were one thing that I could instantly change about myself what would it be?
The first thing that came to mind was to STOP being indecisive. I would say what I mean and mean what I say. Period!
I would change the fact that I am not always as forgiving as i should be. When did I make the rule in my life that some people will get one strike and they are out. People make mistakes,I just need to let it go sometimes.
Product Junkie Diva
In spite of my "perfect" attitude. I have a long list of things that I would change about myself. it's not that I'm not happy with myself, but there are some imperfections that I could live without... I can't pinpoint ine specific thing, though... but, deep down, I'm happy being perfectly imperfect.
@mizrepresentation... i feel the exact same way miz
i am very concerned with wanting people to like me probably because i don't like myself too much
i mean i'm very smart, i look fine when i'm not broken out or anything, i'm a genuinely good person
but yet i must not have self-love or respect because sometimes i've put other peoples interest before my own
i think i'm getting too down on myself because i'm not that bad but i want to eliminate my desire to please everybody because sometimes i hold up my life to suit others
and that's not always good
thank you for being honest
@d'lee... yeah you should learn to follow directions lol
i haven't done a good job as a big brother
1st what you want to be meaner than you already are lol (kidding)
2nd sometimes we can't but help too much but we still have to what we think is right i guess
3rd i'll talk about this one with you personally
4th we all are sometimes
the only thing i can say is that we do the best we can with what we have tre
we just gotta realize as al sharpton says "it's not our fault for being knocked down, but it's our responsibility for getting back up again
@free free... it's amazing how much i have in common with all my bloggers
sometimes i'm like this too
i think it goes back to our desir to be liked
you just have to realize that you have to do what you believe before you do what pleases others
PERIOD! lol
@product junkie diva... hola amiga
i think we've been taught not to look at the cause of the person's behavior but just to blame the person
the behavior and person are two different things
if you are so hard on others (as you say) then you are probably hard on yourself
whatever is causing you to be so hard on yourself is the major problem
whatever it is it's not your fault
but it's your responsibility to get over it
thanx for dropping a line
@cannon... i think that you are
but everybody wants to improve themselves in something
once you figure it out snd start to work on it you'll be better as a result
1 of the things i wld want to change is being too emotional,
@ladyguide... thanx for stoping by
welcome my sister
many of us have this problem not just the ladies either
again one of my major challenges
i'm a pisces so we are prone to all types of emotions
but emotions can be used in a good way as well
they can be used to motivate us to do what we need to do
and nothing gets you going like when you know somebody doesn't want you to succeed
we have an inner desire to prove them wrong
please come by again
hey tubmsn, thanks for passing by mine...did you have debris in your teeth? ummm. i donno what i can totally say i hate about me, i guess if you asked me this when i was 15 then i would tell you i thought i was fat and now i realise i am a normal woman and its okay...i dont want to be a size 10 or below that... and i do love my pastries... no am not a fat cow...:) nice blog though and that...good question, lots of selah for it
That I give off a mean first impression. I am terrible at it... and most people think I am a straight bitch until they get to know me. But I just dont do the new people approaching me thing. This is out and about, on the street, at work, etc.
im so sure i commented on this post, i know i rad it for sure, neway, i dont know u know, what i would change about myself?....
im upsesed with height, so ild love to be taller than i am, but im still growing anyway, so hey
some folks think i'm perfect...i'm not. this assumption is so much burden on me to carry around...scared that i'd dissapiont them. i'd love to change that.
i would love to trust more, be more open to those i love at least 55 percent. i give blank waves most times, they cant figure me out.
basically thats that. i think i'm cool with my body, i might bitch about wanting a deeper voice, but if i'm given the chance i'd go 'dont touch that tone'...lol
what would you change? you dont got to hear it all from us...lets hear yours
i want bigger boobs.
if i could change anything at the moment, I'd change d fact that i lost ma virginity to a nuisance!
I would change.....my skin! I was blessed with very sensitive skin that is extremely good at healing itself. Unfortunately, it heals so much that, in the absence of lesions, large keloids form. Ive had them removed, but in order to keep them from doing what they do best (grow back), I get very painful shots in all 10 every two months. Sometimes I have "tough skin" and just think they give me character and other times its immense frustration when I want to wear a no sleeve tee without the anxiety of being too self conscious, whew....
excuse me... why is the solution private and why didnt I get an invite to read it?
I hate that my mouth is faster than my brain. I want boobs and better hair. I’m really selfish. I wish I had my life together right now, but I don’t. this post is making me depressed…
lol
I would like to have slightly larger boobs and a smaller waist (not skinny, but toned).
i will have more patience than i ve right now, thats about the only thing that i feel needs a touch up ...lol
how have u been tubman?
I'd be more diligent than I am now and have a stronger attention span...some days I feel like I have adult ADD.
I'd have more patience and be better at forgiveness. I wouldn't sweat the small stuff.
Oh, wait, you said one thing...bigger breasts! I know it's vain and I should say something like I'd be closer to God, but it's true.
@lulu... thanks lulu
and you are welcome
that's a good answer
i love pastries too
i don't mind a little girth lol
keeps me warm in the winter lol
@e... you are a taurus
you can't help it
the bull is in your nature lol
i really do think that the signs are on point with you and my crazy uncle lol
your first impression might be rough but only a real man will be up for the challenge
so it might be best that the weak ones don't pursue you more
@fab... what you wish you were a model or something
they have short models don't they
i think the short ones like eva from next top model are some of the sexiest ones
after the big girl from the model show anybody should be able to get in lol
@the lovely flowing and miraculous queen of fantasies... sorry about the title lol
i don't care what you say i think that you are perfect and you are not making me take it back lol
naw, i didn't get that perfect vibe from you i must say
i guess because you bear your naked soul with us
and i hate to say it but it's probably best that you don't trust too many people
it aint their business anyway
@DL...
i want bigger man breasts by the way
dag i need a chest
women love the pecs
but i never had any lol
dag i suck
sorry, oh and everything will be ok shawdy
i know that you've been through a lot of adversity in your life and you've over come it
how do i know
u tell us everything lol
@danyelley... you are ok
i know there is a natural cure for that
maybe clay
you get from the healthfood stores for facials and stuff like that
i will do some research though
i shouldn't always gove advice but i love projects
expect an answer soon
@e... because i don't want you to give a mean first impression to my new blog format lol
@ bannana puddin... i think you are a very smart young lady
at least clever lol
i love your little jokes even though sometimes they are degarding to others lol
and i thought you alredy got boobs
dag you can do anything with a picture now a days lol
@fantasyeyes... thanx for dropping by
i got a hint for yall bloggers
REAL MEN DON'T CARE ABOUT BIG BOOBS
this society has a weird sexual fixation with breasts
the breasts wern't seen as sexual objects before the white
sorry
i'll just end this right here lol
@msemotions... i've been excellent my dear
you have no idea
and yes, we could all use more patience
this is my major downfall
if i had more patience afrikan people would be free by now lol
@nicky... NICKY NICKY
NO YOU DIDN'T
YOU DIDN'T SAY BIGGER BOOBS
NO
that's ok lol
you're still a good person
and you know some foods can give you add like high fructose corn syrup and almost everything on the market
thanx for being so open nicky
what i would change?
my height......lollll that can only happen in my dreams
@darkelcee... you are right
why you wanna change your height
are you a midget or something lol
i'm sorry if you are
i know that you are perfect
don't change a thing boo
peace
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