Tough question because we are so used to thinking in the present. It's a question we need to ask ourselves though because what we do now will have an effect on where we are in 5 years, in 50 years and where our children are in 500 years. We often don't think about how what we do now has an impact on what happens to us later. But it is very important that we consider this sometimes. So do you want to be married with kids. Do you want to be make more and have more money to spend. Wuz up family, let a brother know!
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Whew! Are you interviewing me for a job? lol
Let's see...with a masters in public health, public administration or social work, published and self-employed, living in the Northeast, running my own mentoring program/nonprofit for girls, out of debt, calmer, healthy, wiser, fearless.
What's funny is that there are certain things I can't see in my future, namely marriage and children. Not because I don't want them, but because they seem so out of reach for me now.
@nicky... wow
hit me up for that mentoring program since you'll be in my neck of the woods, the northeast
it's interesting about the marriage and children bit
they say the more degrees a woman gets the less likely she is to marry and settle down so that doesn't surprise me at all
you have so many aspirations
you'll be fine
if you ever need some help though you can always buy my book lol
I hope to have my own business up and running and not working for the man... besides that... I hope to be married and have at least 1 kid... but that's not really a priority right now.
ok i have my own business lol
you support mine and i'll definately support yours
U shud be called James bookman and not tubman-except you are in a tub full of pages! Look at the list of books in your profile!
In 5 years:
-I'd be married with 2 kids to a very successful man
-I'd have started my tour of the
world
-I'd have become a great photographer
-I'd have completed a course on 3d animation
-I'd have learned to stop flaring up on every little thing
-I'd have bought land for my sports complex [U shud c the plan]
-I'd have planted a huge garden too
-I'd have stopped eating too much chocolates
-I'd have become a balanced successful woman
In 50 years, my name would come up in history classes even though I'd still be alive. A living legend thingy!
In 500 years, a monument would have been built in memory of me
What? Dreams come true book man!
In five years, I plan to be actually where I am suppose to be in my life!
LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST!!!
ENJOYING EVERYDAY WITH THE PEOPLE I LOVE AND WITH STRANGERS!!
BE THANKFUL FOR THE THINGS I ALREADY HAVE AND WELCOMING ALL THE JOYS/SURPRISES/LESSONS LIFE HAS IN STORE FOR ME!
RASING MY CONSCIOUSNESS AND AWARENESS OF THE MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT!
AND ENJOYING THE DAYS OF GIVING AND RECEIVING LOVE!!
B/C LOVE IS ALL AROUND, JUST OPEN YOUR EYES TO IT!!!
Man! That's a damn question for your ass.
Where do I see myself in 5 years? I see myself living good and comfortable. Marriage isn't important to me unless someone takes it as seriously as I do, so that isn't an issue.
I plan on being firmly planted into my career and moving up the ladder. I can't ask for a better job than what I have so I should still be there.
Thank you for dropping by my blog. Hopefully you liked what you saw and will come back again.
HI James,
Great post. I want to be self employed. If marriage comes along in that time and a child, that would be great also.....
Prodcut Junkie Diva
P.S. thanks for coming to my site...I love it when guys visit..lol
In 5 years, I hope to have finally finished the novel I've been writing!
Thanks for visiting my blog, Darling.
my broda,e plenty o, but due to space, i'll list only 5,
by GOD'S GRACE,
1.be better person through Christ
2.be a wonderful wife to a wonderful husband and a wonderful mother to wonderful kids,lol(quite a mouthful abi?)
3.be tru with sch(masters n odas)
4.be a valuable employee in good company (dats if i haven't started mine yet)
5.positively touching the lives of the less privileged,(esp the kids)
AMEN
i see myself going places in my carrer, getting ready to start looking for a wife
@ejura... i am so rooting for your course in animaition
we need more positive images of ourselves in the form of cartoons because we hardly have any out there portraying our story
give the world our story ejura
ps. good luck with the new beau
cop the CD if you need assistance lol
@free free... i love your enthusiasm
call it a hunch but i think you'll be okay lol
thanks so much for continuously blessing these pages with your pressence
you are heaven sent
@kayos... that is a questiion for you
i gave it to yall to give me some more insight myself lol
it's good that you actually have a job that's cool
hopefully you'll get that guy who adores the idea of marriage as much as you
i'll be back real soon too
@a junkie for products who's also a diva... sorry about the title lol
i love your site
i really need to go through the archives to see what you got up in there
it's amazing how similar we all are
many of us want to be married with kids, self employed or at least settled in a great job
this is the one thing i've learned about this product
we have more in common with each other than we think
thanx for stoping by
@gurly girl... i hope you have it done too
hopefully it will be done before then
thanx for stopping by yet one more time
@ladyguide... wuz up o lol
yup
we all have the same goals
it would be nice if afrikan people all over the world could have a mutual aid system where we help each other to get what all of us want at the same time
it's called working together
our unity will be the strongest force on earth
this is why others are so frietened of us being "conscious" of the REAL situation we are in
@the fabulous freshness... i'm at that point myself
luckily i'm very close to finding one
choose wisely though
In five years...the mouther of 3. A better Christian, A nicer woman and hopefully..BALLLIN!!!
Seriously, I fully intend on going back to school to further my education. I want to be a social worker to kids that have been abused
@pocachoo... sorry i like that name lol
i think that is a worhty goal
and i think you should start right now because five years will be here before you know it
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