Okay people I need your help please. Things are going well with my audio book but I don’t have all the answers (yes I said it lol). There are some things I just don’t see and I need the help of some brilliant, creative bloggers to see me over on some examples of when relationships turn bad.
I already got the solutions but in order to get a specific solution to a problem you have to have that specific problem. The more specific information is the easier it is to apply it. I need you to be with me right now. Give me some instances in your or someone else’s life in which a relationship took a turn for the worst (op d I need you on this because I know you have plenty lol (just kidding)). But for real holla. Don’t be scared, nobody’s going to judge you. Just give me a scenario so we can finally get this thing out and start saving our relationships!
PS you can email me at tubmansolution@gmail.com if you don't want to say it here this is completely anonymous.
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23 comments:
Tub, I started a post and then stopped. It was too raw for me. LOL.
email me
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it's for all of us and you'll be anonymous if i use it
you can do it baby lol
Very intersting post, I found you through kawana's blog, I will definitely put you in my blogroll.
Examples of bad situations that come up in a relationship?
Let's see..
1. If you don't get along with the in-laws, what do you do?
2. If he stays out all night (not working)...lol and doesn't come home until the next day?
3. Infidelity
4. Doing drugs (smoking weed) and won't stop and wants you to try it with him?
5. Won't help pay the bills, but can do everything else with the money?
you dont want my help mr. mental masturbation... so i'm just gon sit here... chill in the tub, and watch it all unfold
Hmmm...How about:
Losing interest/getting bored in long term relationships.
Or...Staying in relationships for all the WRONG reasons.
Sometimes people just grow apart. Once you get past the "new love" infatuation, the patina wears off. Sometimes true colors show up. Those colors aren't always bad, but may not, after all, be a match with the color wheel one rocks. Idosycracies pop up, incongruities with peace mentalities, differences of opinion and philosophies...sometimes we just grow apart.
Blu Jewel and I just collabed about this very subject at http://journeyduets.blogspot.com/
Oh by the way, I'm Sojourner G. Nicetameetcha!
Liars! 9 times out of ten if you tell me the truth, there is less likely going to be a problem than when you lie from the jump.
Cheaters! Enough said.
Bad communicators! Sometimes I wonder if my ex would start fights with me on purpose, because I’m just that good at making up ;p
I think everything is pretty much covered here. I also believe in the signs, aquarius, Gemini and libras go good together…
i think i'll join eb in the tub on this one...
hope you get what you looking for though
Great post!
There are a few things that could cause a relationship to go bad...
1. Trust
2. Lack of communication
3. money (or lack thereof)
4. negative influences (from friends, family, or in-laws)
Ooh, I got one!
1. She just stops talking to you. No phone call, no email, no facebook, no myspace. She literally drops off the face of the earth, until you see her MySpace profile pic, with her hugging up some other guy.
2. She doesn't love you as much as you love her.
The moment the honesty goes out of the relationship, it's over.
When you love someone you don't like and you don't know how to let go because of the strong feelings. Then you realize it takes more than love for a relationship to function. Yet, neither one of you knows how to do that.
@yasmeen bleet... welcome
stop by again sometime
@my love... good ones
in my book i'm gonna give specific answers to many of the problems we tend to have
the issues we face are the same ones that all of us will or have faced with each other so these answers are important to all of us
your insight and help with the development of this book is indispensible
thank you so much in so many ways
@ebonne... wuz up wit u yo
you leaving me hanging again
dang
@madam behaving... yup
will seek solutions to those specifics
@the truth to sojourner... why didn't we see those things in the past
i guess we are so blinded by the newness of the person that once they tend not to be so new we get tired of it
thank you for gracing this page with your wonderful presence
@puddin... yes the signs do play a MAJOR part
there's so much to cover with us because we are so complicated as a people
the ones you covered are the major ones
and thankfully there are solutions to all of them
i might not know them all but i'll try with all my might to get them
@fantasico queeno... you duckin out too
man what do i have to do get you two involved
@12kyle... sup partner
this is why we need more brothers on the scene
1. Trust
2. Lack of communication
3. money (or lack thereof)
* 4. negative influences (from friends, family, or in-laws, THE MEDIA)
same issues
brothers really do have the same issues
and sisters do too
this is why we need something from our perspective
hope to see you again
@n. steven... that first one is a doozy lol
you'd be surprised how often the first part of the first one happpens
no consideration
thanx brother
@physically fit diva... nobody's compltely honest about everything off the muscle
we all hold back because we want to be seen in a favorable way sometimes
i would like to meet the person that doesn't act like this
i wonder if that person exists lol
keep coming back
@shai #2... this is why i want to do this book because i was in this exact situation about a year ago
many of our experiences are very similar
we really aren't that different
even though you don't agree with anything i say lol
When "she" thinks being strong means usurping his authority. (I like to start stuff, if you didn't already know.)
having "friends" the other party is unaware of.
playing with "friends" the other party is unaware of.
Creating a lot of debt just because you have a job.
Here are the areas of contention of any relationship.
Differences due to religion
Differences due to money
Differences due to sex (includes kids)
Differences due to inlaws
OK... so I'm back... the problems I think we have
1. The fact that women mature faster than men, so we find ourselves in a waiting stage until you get on our level
2. trust is always an issue
3. no pre-conceived notions, we both seem to always go into situations thinking someone wants something from us, as a woman you feel all they want is sex, if its a man you feel all they want is to see your bankroll
4. We need to let go and let love. Men say that women think too much when it comes to know but men do to. It takes a lot for a man to get to the point where he proposes to a women, and personally I feel that gives men way to much power in relationship. For women, we overanalyze every situation. I am a culprit of this. Thinking everything that happens is a sign, or has some sort of meaning even though I know men arent that deep when it comes to this stuff.
5. the approach, i may have missed out a couple good guys because their approach was all off. If you are interested in me, give it some thought, get your words together before you try to holler because I have been known to laugh in a couple guys faces. Be sincere, or you will get no love from me.
Ok.. thats all I got right now
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