Monday, November 22, 2010

ive finally found out why i am so bad with women.

Im way too clingy in the begining and i am way to blunt and straightforward when it comes to words.

I feel bad when i hurt a womans feelings but im just a blunt person.

Being myself is more important than the attention or intimacy of a woman.

Sounds crazy doesnt it.

I really dont care if i hurt your feelings.

I wish there was someone to understand me (or at least try to understand me).

Robert Greene says that its only a fool who's honest all the time because if you are too honest you will hurt other peoples feelings.

I guess your on the fools blog right now.


Nigerian Scorpio (Sting) said...

"Being myself is more important than the attention or intimacy of a woman"

Hmmm....u can pass ur thots and feelings across without hurting someone else. I'm a naturally blunt person too, but over the years i have tried to tone it down a little because i do care about how the people who are close to me feel.
It's called tact and diplomacy Mr. You should try it sometime unless u enjoy being alone and never want to have a successful relationship.

James Tubman said...

i used to be tactful and diplomatic (especially on this blog)

and you know where it got me?

frustrated and miserable because i felt like i was restricting myself holding something in

its good to let it out sometimes

regardless of how people feel

you only live once

i know im hard headed lol

Nigerian Scorpio (Sting) said...

James! James! James! How many time did i call u? (Said in d thickest Nigerian accent and pulling on my ear). You are hard headed. Are u sure u r not just mean just to be mean?

James Tubman said...

sorry i didnt respond earlier sting... i hope im not being mean just to be mean... im just tired of dissapointment... however i have to realize thats apart of the game... you win some you lose some but whatever happens you have to keep yourself in the game because if you dont you will miss out on that special person for you

Cyber Diva said...

James it’s a shame, really it is.
Be true to yourself, I’m not buying it.
I’m sure you are far more intelligent that your post suggests… ( I’m Optimistic)
You are blunt and straightforward? Well, so am I, but I guarantee you that I do not pride myself in hurting the feelings of others. (I’m not saying that my actions or words have never had the unintended consequence. In fact on a bad day (When I’m in a mood) it may even be an intended consequence (I’m no saint). ) However I know that hurting people is not a good thing and I make a conscious effort to be diplomatic and receptive in my dealings. Be it with friends, colleagues, family or indeed the male species.

Why do you men play this “I am so macho card?” Nobody is buying it.
This post belongs to the same rotten school of thought as that of the men in denial who claim they are immune to emotional attachment as if it is some kind of disease.
(Please oh, I am attacking the post not you…Its just healthy interaction. I hope I did’nt hurt your feelings?

Tia's Real Talk said...

Nothing wrong with being blunt. It is needed so that no one gets the wrong impression of the truth. Maybe your problem is tact and timing. There is a time and place for everything and a manner in which it should be spoken/addressed. Maybe your wordage (dont even think thats a is just mean! lol. But nevertheless, be you...just as long as it's coming from a good place. Like I dont have to say a word cause I am listening to your heart.

lulu said...

nothing wrong with being blunt
i agree with Tia's real talk

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