This is hard but im gonna get butt ass raw for this one.
#1 - I have an archaic way of looking at relationships
i have to have romance in my relationships.
i dont feel like im a real man if the woman has to pay for stuff and take care of me like im some damn child.
i have to wear the pants, i have to wine and dine, i have to make the decisions.
i want control (not complete control but i want to be the leader).
#2 - I finally got over my obsession with my ex
it took a long time for me to get over this woman but i havent called her in like over 3 months and i have no intention of calling her or getting back with her at all
i was with this woman for over three and a half years and i was absolutely obsessed with her
i called her damn near everyday we were in the relationship.
when i saw her i was all up on her
when i didnt get my way i would whine and complain, break shit, holler and scream to the top of my lungs i even put my hands on her a few times (that stoped when she told my father about all the times i hit her and harrased her)
she's a sagitarius (free spirits) so she didnt let a lot of things get to her
she kept it real a lot and in most cases i couldnt handle the truth
and i can get psycho when i feel that things arent the way they should be
all in all she didnt hold a grudge and neither did i
we both just grew up and naturally went our seperate ways
#3 - I masterbate over 5 times a week
sorry if you are disgusted by this but im trying to be more honest with myself
maybe if talk about this more then ll be able to stop myslef from doing this
this is a major problem and has definately caused my sex life not to be as good as it should be
actually ive masterbated so much in my life that in most cases the only time i can cum is when im gratifying myself (i need to tak to a sexologists about this or something).
It's very difficult for me to bust a nut during the sexual experience.
Thats because i've been watching porn and getting turned on by it since i was like 11
if you have any kids in the house PLEASE HIDE THE PORN VERY CAREFULLY (there are toooooo many screwed up kids in the world already)
#4 - I think misguided feminism has tried to turn the boys and men in this society into girls
i dont have enough time to really talk about this right now but this reaaaaaly bothers me.
there is nowhere in this society where a man can be a man anymore (especially a black man)
men and little boys are completely different from women and girls.
men like to dominate, they like to be aggressive, the are loud and boisterous, they are egotistical and chauvanistic.
they are also fair, most have the ability to look at things objectively without putting too much emotion in it.
i dont want to learn how to express my feelings more, i dont want to watch my tongue whenever i go out, i want to be able to speak my goddamn mind whenever i want
and if you dont like it FUCK YOU, FUCK FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK YOU!
Men should be accepted for who we are just like women shoud be accepted for who they are
STOP TRYING TO TURN THE BROTHERS INTO PANSIES!
#5 - I've been a nice guy all my life and im sick of it
Within these last couple of months it's like ive made a complete 180 transformation
I have changed profoundly in a way that i will never know
i used to be intimidated by women who were self sufficient because throughout my adult life iva always struggled to make a decent living
but becauseof some altercations ive had with others and because of some books ive read ive completely changed the way i look at the world
i am no longer intimidated by women
i can freely express myself with any woma without caring what they think
most men cant do this
monst men are afraid of being ostracized by women
im no longer afraid in fact i am grateful for the people who have stoped coming to my blog and have stoped welcoming me to their blog because they didnt really give a shit about me or the things i was saying anyway so they did me a favor
many men are afraid to assert their masculity when it comes to dealing with a woman and i think that is very sad
i can proudly say that i am not one of those men anymore
peace out
12 comments:
First! Seasons greetings.
Why do nice guys always say they are sick of being nice...... then after that phase has passed go right back to being nice.
You r what u are. There's nothing wrong with being nice. Maybe u r confusing nice with another word. Ha!
havent seen you in a while
welcome back
you are sooooooooo right my dear
really the nice guy isnt nice
he's manipulative
he's a punk and he uses crying, whining, giving to get and alll other types of ways to get what he wants from a woman
he measures himself almost solely by how women view him
so you are right the ones who seem to be nice and who seem to be push overs are dangerous
and im not going to be like that anymore
maybe one day ill sit down and do a post on this so that the guys can understand this better
if you want to learn more get the book "no mr. nice guy"
i cant think of the guys name now but its a good one
Hmmm nice.
And stop putting your hands on women. lol. Nah forreal.
And the masterbation...LOL.
I'm disgusted by this... you're too insane to even be alive.
i admire ur blatant honesty..
we can all only hope to be better people!
happy new year love!
Happy new year!
I admire your honesty as well. It's not easy to bare our souls and allow others to read our intimate thoughts.
thank you ladies
mr tubman aint playin no games in the 09'
"To thy own self be true!"
You better do it! Now I don't know about you laying hands to show you care, but I'm very happy you got her out of your system she was toxic. As for the masturbation...yeah you need to talk to a doctor, but don't sleep with her. LOL!
ill try not to
thank you for that fantasy eyes
Okay, I got to give you props for coming "butt nasty clean" with this post.
Yeah, keep your hands off women. Use your words, brother. And speaking of your hands, keep them off yourself.
LOL. Have you ever really wondered how many men suffer from this obsession with masturbation. I probably masturbate just as much, and have the same problem. It is a problem and I have been good for the past week, so I have to keep my mind off sex. I am honestly thinking about a self imposed celibacy for the '09, and that includes masturbation.
I find it interesting that masturbation isn't one of the flaws you would like to be rid of. I'm just say.
Love in the '09, bro.
LoL, my younger brother masturbates, and i encourage him. i say if you're young (which he is, only 15) masturbate sex can wait!!
and i agree that there are differences between men and women, but those differences are only to do with sex, and all that comes with it i.e hormones, brain hemisphere activity rates...biological aspects that determine certain behavior. However when it comes to gender and roles, now that’s a different story.
3 years and a half years...wow...y'all were practically married!!
sucker for the old school romance...awwww!!
" I think misguided feminism has tried to turn the boys and men in this society into girls"
Amen to that. I heard another man say this quote: "We have succesfully created men who happen to be capable of bearing children nowadays"
greetings from the netherlands :)
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