What are some examples of bad situations that come up in a relationship?

Okay people I need your help please. Things are going well with my audio book but I don’t have all the answers (yes I said it lol). There are some things I just don’t see and I need the help of some brilliant, creative bloggers to see me over on some examples of when relationships turn bad.

I already got the solutions but in order to get a specific solution to a problem you have to have that specific problem. The more specific information is the easier it is to apply it. I need you to be with me right now. Give me some instances in your or someone else’s life in which a relationship took a turn for the worst (op d I need you on this because I know you have plenty lol (just kidding)). But for real holla. Don’t be scared, nobody’s going to judge you. Just give me a scenario so we can finally get this thing out and start saving our relationships!

PS you can email me at tubmansolution@gmail.com if you don't want to say it here this is completely anonymous.

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What would you do if you had a million dollars?

Deep question. You know I like asking the deep ones. What would you do? It's a lot of money and you could do a lot with it. Would you buy your dream house, dream car? Would you donate it all to charity (ha)? Would you use it to start your own business? Or invest in a friends? What would you do? Unlike the other one I'll tell you upfront with this one because this is one I've been contemplating for a long time. Some of you all know about leveraging. Say as if you want to get a loan. You can get a million dollar loan if you put up 100,000 as collateral. I would do that ten times thus giving me 10 million to use. Then i would go around town looking for he cheapest property in the black neighborhoods and i would buy the biggest cheapest buildings i could find and make them community educational centers where i show poor people how to make money easily off the Internet in real estate, investing etc. I would also have classes on how to be a good parent, how to heal yourself of incurable diseases and of course how to maintain a great relationship. I would also make the students pay fees once they start making money so that we could always have extra capital to expand into different areas all over the country. As the money grew and as i became friends with other wealthy investors I would duplicate this process in any major city where black people are and i would add on banks, credit unions, investment clubs, farm land, manufacturing plants, livestock, distribution centers with trucks and warehouses and centralize all of these resources under the umbrella of my organization then i would just keep expanding and continue helping people to get out of poverty. It's a dream but it's definitely possible.

So what would you do? Let me know.

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What would you do if you only had 24 hours to live?

So what would you do if you knew without a shadow of a doubt that you only had 24 hours until your time on this earth expired.

i'm not gonna write my comment until after i see yours (so you wont be able to cheat).

it's a deep question really because this is like the end, no turning back and you only got one day to do something that you would truly like to before you die.

so come out with it, don't hold anything back.

holla.

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So I Went To The Obama Concert Last Night In Baltimore

I was working with the community organization I'm with passing out flyer's. And while i was there i had a chance to sit down and really listen to what he had to say. He was playing all his favorite hits (yes we can, Obama, Martin Luther king lol). This guy is no dummy. He has thoroughly studied the minds of the people and he tells them what they want to hear for the most part. He said he is not paid off by anybody only the American people (ha). I almost bust out laughing when i heard that one. He said that he will not hesitate at all to go to war against those who attack us (who's trying to attack us), but in order to do that we have to give our military the best equipment and technology available. Now I understand why he said that. He's in a packed stadium with mostly Blacks but he knows without a shadow of a doubt that he needs that white vote and white politicians and white people in general have traditionally thought of Blacks as being soft on crime.

He is an astute politician but he is going to have to follow what the corporate sector tells him to do (just like any other president) because that is the force that really rules the government, the corporations and the owners of capital and wealth. Quick lesson. The people who run this country are the multi-national corporations. Whatever they say goes for the most part. They pay the politicians large substantial amounts of money to get their bills passed through congress. And everyone of those bills are giving them more access to the resources and wealth of the people. Are all of them corrupt, of course not but many of them are.

This is why Black people need to wake up and understand that power is not just in voting. It's all about money money money lol. He who pays the Piper calls the tune. We gotta pay the piper and the pipers family off to get what we need for ourselves. So if America is going to be for sale (and it is) then we are going to have to be the biggest buyers. Not just Afro-Americans but Caribbeans, Latin Americans, Africans in Europe, Africa, India (yes there are millions of Africans in India) everywhere. We are a global people and we better recognize that all of our destinies are tied in with each other. When every other ethnic group looks at us they look at all as being the same, the way they are. Whites from Brazil may look different from the ones in Australia, but they know that they are still European. It's like what a comedian said one day, the Africans in Africa are only the ones who got away lol. We are all one people and we all have one destiny: to survive lol.

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Why The Worst Rappers Get The Most Play

Do you ever wonder why the radio and televison stations only seem to play some of the most disguting, repulsive human beings on earth?

hopefully this post will give you some answers

Why the worst rappers get the most play:

1) because it distracts our attention from more important things like taking care of ourselves

many of us (including myself) have been so caught up in music and rap that we have rejected doing some necessary things in life like studying, thinking about goals we want to accomplish, dealing with personal issues, etc.

2) because for some reason white people like listening to black people say and do the vilest things (most of the people who buy hip-hop albums are white)

for some reason throughout our history in this country many white people like seeing black men acting in a savage way

when you look at hollywood then and now you’ll see this same stereotype projected in many movies, video’s etc of the black man as a savage beast unable to control his primitive urges to kill, steal, abuse women etc.

Who are these rappers that get the most play:

50 cent, the game, biggie, tupac, baby, lil wayne, souljah boy

what kind of lifestyle did they live before being a rapper:

most of them have a history of abusing their own, selling drugs to poor inner city people, spent time in prison, many of them have been brutally injured and abused (shot, stabbed), many of them would do anything to get money (including hurting or misleading others to make a profit), many of them grew up without a father or positive male figure to show them what real manhood is, many of them grew up emulating white gangsters (scarface, robert deniro roles and other mob characters), many of them had family and friends viciously murdered or maimed (baby's sister and father were killed horribly), many of them have grown up emulating men that mistreat women like the ones in gangster movies, pornography etc.

Given all of the abuse they’ve suffered why do they continue to spew hate even when they have so much money:

1) those who have been abused abuse others when their abuse hasn’t been properly dealt with in a therapeutic way

2) record companies want rappers to project this hard savage image to their main audience (young white and asian males)

what is the ultimate result of only seeing a whole group of people in one way:

if you only see a group of people in a savage way then you will think that all of them are savages and you won’t mind if they go to jail in large numbers or kill and murder each other because you’ll think that this way of living is their nature and you won’t have sympathy for them

the first step to killing or mis-using someone is to first see them as less than human

you’ll also get a superiority complex, thinking that you are better than them and that you are not as evil as them

what should we do about it:

gain knowledge about this whole process

know intently what the record companies are doing to you and how they are trying to brainwash you and don’t buy into it.

always, always, always ask questions

think for yourself

and if you really want to scare other people know something about your history and their history


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