Black people just don't get it: The most important part of an election is before the vote not during.

When you want to do something in life, you can't just hope that things will get better. You have to make sure that they will be better by doing the necessary things to make that idea a reality. The same principle goes with politics.

If we want to see real progress in the Black community amongst the average person then we are going to have to BUY our politicians. Now I know this sounds so immoral and indecent, but this is the way politics is run in America. You have to pay to play.

If you want to ensure that a politician works in the benefit of the people of that district then you have to pay them substantial amounts of money to see that they do just that. And then you get the people out to vote for him.

Let me explain something. Politics is all about money, period. When you elect a person to represent you, that person has access to millions if not billions of dollars that they give away to their constituency in the form of grants, guaranteed loans, contracts etc.

And this is why we vote people into office. Not so we can get our nuts off by telling the world that we have a Black this and a Black that. Not so we can get somebody cute into office, but because that person is going to bring us back the money that we need to do what we have to do to make our communities better.

This is the one and only reason you elect people to represent you because when the time comes to decide who gets what you want your honcho to be in their telling the others "see me over."

Now is Obama going to do this.

Is he going to designate a significant amount of resources to enhancing the lives of Blacks in America. Who knows. What I do know is that we can't just assume that he will. We have to pay him off, put an agenda in front of his face and say "this is what you need to do for us."

Black people are supposedly only 12 to 15% of the population of this nation (all nationalities (Caribbean, African and others)). So if you give us a small portion of the contracts, subsidies and other benefits we'll be OK.

A few billion invested in the lives of Blacks can dramatically improve our condition in this nation. But we have to pay him off in order to have a chance of getting what we want.

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That's it! I gotta add the horoscope signs in my teachings on relationships!

I was on E's site looking at her horoscope profile (I also checked out Nicole's) and I thought maybe I should check mine out. What I found out frightened me so much because it was eerily true. Before I get started I just want to say that our ancestors in Africa found out all of this information by looking at patterns in the sky and by seeing similarities in many different human beings (and we call our civilization advanced). Egyptians were the first one to discover this information and of course they were black. You can get yours here.

But anyway, just thought I'd share my profile with y'all because I'm such a narcissist, lol. But there will still be a benefit to y'all anytime you deal with a Pisces man. And awaaaaaaaay we go.





There are basically two types of Pisces men - those who go against the tide and those who go where it takes them. The former types remain on the lookout for the right opportunity, struggle against the world to utilize its full potential and triumph over life. The latter types remain tangled in their dreams (yes), may not notice even when the opportunity knocks at the door and may miss the bright sunlight of success. A Piscean man needs to develop the personality traits of resolute judgment and unwavering actions to realize his ambitions and be a winner (knowledge has never been the problem with me, it has always been judgement).



He also has to bury his old, unrealizable dreams if he wants to move ahead in life (this is what I am going to struggle with). All this doesn't mean that he is weak or feeble (try me and see lol). It's just that he lives in his dreams too much and has to will himself to get up and indulge in real action (so true). When he manages to brush off the starry dust from his eyes, he sees the real world and then, goes about doing the business of earning his bread. A Piscean male has a very clever and sharp mind. The moment he starts working towards practical aims, you can be sure that he will win the next 'Achievers Award'(when I was at my best I was always better than the rest).



The only problem comes in making him look beyond those unrealistic dreams. If your fish knows how to swim against the current, you can be sure that you are luckiest girl on this earth (take note ladies, owwww). After we have dealt with the practical aspect of the relationship, lets come to the emotional one. This is something you will never have to worry about, with a Pisces guy. A Piscean man will never ever be short on emotions and romance (most of the time I'm too emotional). In fact, he practically breathes them. If the practical aspect of his characteristics profile is fine, you can be sure you have been rewarded with the best guy in the world (gotta have balance though).



He never holds a bias against any person (it's hard for me because I truly understand that the only reason why people hurt others is because they've been hurt themselves. Really they should be pitied instead of being the source of anger). You will never find him passing a judgment in context of anyone, unless and until he has experienced the same situation in which that person is now. Even then, he will try to understand that person's reasons, rather than criticize him. Accusations don't go down well with him either. A Pisces man is never ever mean (unless he's been really hurt). However, at times, he may say something, which turns out to be quite different from what he intended (weird, lol). He is totally dependable and you can trust him with your darkest secrets.



He is a very good listener and people always come to him to discuss all their major and minor problems (even people I don't even know. Once they get a feeling that you may be listening it's all over. Don't mind though unless they are real negative). When he is with you, try not to burden him more with your tensions too. Throughout the day, he has been listening to other people's troubles and the way he is, he would have absorbed all those negative energies. Now, when he is with you, he needs to get all of this out of his system and rejuvenate himself. Piscean men have such an empathetic disposition that they need to rest every now and then, to bring back the calmness and steadiness (this is the time when my ex used to bother me the most lol).



If they want to be left alone, they should not be disturbed. Closeness and togetherness is good, but let them have their moments of solitude. Give them the space they desire and the heart will only grow fonder. A Pisces man is very sensitive and can get hurt very easily (my main character flaw, but i don't pay y'all no mind). He appears to be confident of himself, but on the inside, he is painfully shy. He needs to know that you appreciate him, care for him and love him ( if I have a woman who I know is on my side, I'll give her the world). He has a very quick temper, but the anger subsides as quickly as it comes.



He will never remain angry for a very long time and will seldom hold a grudge. He has the ability to see right through people's outer layer and that makes it very difficult to fool him (it also makes things bad for that person because I will treat them a certain way based on that judgement). On the other hand, he can fool you if he wants (disregard this) and such situations will arise frequently, since he likes to keep his own affairs to himself. A Piscean man may speak a small lie once in a while (make pretend you didn't read that). This is because he has some secret fear of revealing all about himself. However, you don't need to worry, as these lies will always be completely harmless and help keep his imagination running.



Jealously is not one of the personality traits of a Pisces. He trusts you totally, but remember he is also a man and will definitely expect loyalty from you. As far as he is concerned, you will get plenty of reasons to be jealous, as he will have close friends of both the sexes. He will also appreciate beauty (yes I do), but he will never be disloyal (Was with my ex for 3 years, not once. Outside of my mind that is, lol). That's just not him. If you can cope up with this, you will be rewarded with the most romantic husband, with whom you talk about almost everything under the sun (had a lot of weird conversations).



A Piscean guy is never too cautious about money and you will have to handle that front. In fact, you need to present yourself as the perfect example of a saver and he will, sooner or later, follow suit (I know how to make it but don't trust me too long with it). He learns quickly from the people he admires and respect, so what better person than you to teach him economy. With children, he will be a lot of fun and extremely loving. He will listen patiently to their childish problems (miss my little nieces and nephews), provide them with solutions, keep their imagination oiled and minds active. However, teaching them discipline will be your responsibility.



Remember that a Pisces man is very fond of his dreams. Never ever step on them or laugh at them - he will be hurt. In fact, believe in them and one day, you may be walking on the red carpet besides him(tried to tell em, they wouldn't listen). Trust him (if you do this for me you'll get anything you want and so much more), give him love and keep him emotionally nourished. In return, he will shower you with lots of love and affection and provide you with a happy and rich home. Don't nag or criticize him (sometimes it's funny, but most of the time annoying) and always support him in realizing his hopes (so hard for the modern day Black woman but so many rewards come from doing it). Nurture his imagination and one day, you will find yourself blessed with some incredibly good luck!



While I don't believe that astrology is destiny I have to say that this horoscope was amazingly accurate. Our ancestors definitely knew something, and I have much gratitude towards them for giving us such a comprehensive description of who we are. I highly recommend that you know thoroughly the sign of the person you're dealing with. I will.

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Can somebody please tell me what an independent woman is?

This woman has done a lot to screw the minds of Black women up eveywhere.

There is no such thing as an independent woman.

Never has been never will be.

That's just a ploy to bifurcate black men and black women from each other even more.

Women, just like men, depend on other human beings in order to survive.

Do you have your own farms to make your own food? No.

Do you own a personal sweatshop in your basement to make your shoes and dresses? No.

And if you do, did you go out and pick the cotton to make that stuff?

Do you have your own nuclear missiles to protect you from people who might want to kill you?

The only reason why Black women have more choices in the world is because there are lots of employers out there who need capable women to work for them.

That's it!

And when you look at those employers who you work for what you're gonna find out is that they are, in fact, MEN!

Might not be that many Black men but they are men none the less.

So you are still dependent on them to maintain your job, your livelihood, your survival.

Having more choices and being independent are two different things.

Please give me your definition of what an independent Black woman is before my head explodes!

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will post later still working on it

stop settling for less in your relationships. you have the power to change your partner for the better. if you have an open mind don't be afraid to click here to learn more.