Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Sometimes its hard to get over someone you once jhad deep feelings for

Sometimes i can be a little clingy to people.

I dont know why that is.

For instance, i was with someone and things didnt work out.

Now the person doesnt want to talk to me but in the relationship both of us did things that we shouldnt have done.

Am i wrong for still trying to maintain contact with this person.

She doesnt want to speak to me at all.

I just dont understand.

I guess thats how people are sometimes.

Once they are done with you they just throw you away like a piece of trash or something.

Well if people so easily loose contact with you after things didnt go as planned, i think the question should be asked: did hey ever like you.

See we use people all the time.

The people who do something for you and say its from the heart i believe are the sneakiest of them all.

I just dont think that someone would do something for somebody they didnt like.

If you do something for someone that must mean that you want something back from them.

A lot of people lie to themselves im just trying to be honest with myself.

All people give to get something in return.

Maybe i'm wrong.

Who knows.

3 comments:

Joy Akut said...

we definately always want something back....even when we think we dont.
lifes all about give and take innit?

sometimes we might actually care for a person, and the reason we choose to stay out of their ways and loose contact is because we've been hurt, or we're trying to start afresh and the only way to achieve that is stay far away....even if we've done things together that we shd never have:)

James Tubman said...

i dont know if i understand that or not

i think im just acting like this because i have done this to others before and i dont like it when its done to me lol (such a hypocrite)

i think i just need to get a life fantasy

been a while my cheree amour

Chari said...

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!! Lol.
After you are done talking to someone you should always take a break. I prefer a looooong break. So that people can come to terms with their feelings and such. You have to do what is best for you. Not the other person.

Just my 4 cents. :)